Cherokee Nation's Wilma Mankiller remembered as humble leader

TAHLEQUAH, Okla. -- One of the most influential American Indian leaders in recent history, former Cherokee Nation Chief Wilma Mankiller was widely known for strengthening her tribe and drawing the accolades of U.S. presidents. But it was her humble, tender nature -- a refusal to squash a bug, an affinity for opera -- that defined her, friends and family said Saturday.

Mankiller, among the few women to ever lead a major tribe, was remembered during a memorial in Oklahoma that drew more than 1,200 mourners, including dignitaries from other tribes and governments, as a respected leader.

But she was also a mother who turned her daughters onto Motown records, an avid poker player and dancer with an affinity for movie star Johnny Depp.

Mankiller died Tuesday after a bout with pancreatic cancer. She was 64.

Mankiller led the Cherokee Nation, which now has about 290,000 members, from December 1985 until 1995, when she decided not to seek re-election.

Under her guidance, the tribe tripled its enrollment, doubled employment and built new health centers and children's programs.

She received the Presidential Medal of Freedom -- the highest civilian honor in the country -- from then-president Bill Clinton in 1998.

Yet she was always without pretension, whether she were with dignitaries in Washington or sitting on a porch at home in Oklahoma, friends said.

"Her strength was absolute humility," said current Cherokee Nation Chief Chad Smith. "That humility made her approachable rather than aloof ... and made her lead rather than follow."

About 170 dignitaries were among those who attended her memorial, where dozens of people lined their cars along the already-clogged entrance hours ahead of the 11 a.m. service. Some brought their own lawn chairs and blankets.

They were told that Mankiller, even with her cancer diagnosis, never stopped living to the fullest, planning the next day's events or making peace with her final days.

Just days after receiving the presidential award, Mankiller was back in Oklahoma playing with her nieces and nephews on the porch of a church, Smith said.

Her husband, Charlie Soap, said that on their first date, they ate hot dogs from a Tulsa fast-food joint and watched a Rambo movie. She didn't like either.

"I feel like she's not gone," Soap said, trying to hold back tears. "She's still here."

Her daughter, Felicia Olaya, ended the service by reading a note her mother wrote before her death. Mankiller said she wanted people "to know what an incredible life I've had. I want them to be encouraged by it."