Move on when it is time

Jamie had a job she adored, plus she also loved the people with whom she worked. However, one thing was missing: the enthusiasm she had once maintained when she first began working. Jamie tried to hang in there, thinking her mood would change or her excitement would reappear. That failed to be the case. Even though she turned up at work each day and went through the motions, she eventually realized that what she was attempting might be better accomplished by someone else.

Jamie also was acquiring new interests. This was a sign to her that it might be time to leave the old and start over. Although she could use the money, Jamie felt she was being unfair to the organization employing her. So after much praying and discerning the pros and cons of staying or leaving, Jamie decided that it was time to move on -- to step aside and let someone else fill her shoes.

Michael Strahan, a television co-host and sports commentator, experienced a situation that was similar to Jamie's. Having been a former National Football League player -- and a very good one -- Strahan eventually felt it was time for him to take yet another route. So he graciously relinquished the coveted position. On the Kelly and Michael Television Show, Strahan commented, "Sometimes you recognize that you've done all you can where you are and it's time to move on." He did just that and said he is content in his new positions.

Father Patrick Nwokoye presented a sermon concerning his admiration for Pope Benedict XV1. Nwokoye held him in high esteem for his decision to step down from his position as Pope of the Catholic Church. Although his choice was controversial among many, Pope Benedict possibly believed someone else could serve better than he presently could.

He cited some reasons as being his advanced age and health. Regardless of some negative public opinion, he evidently listened to his conscience and gut feelings and stepped aside. I, too, value his decision. To keep a position because of honor or prestige, when you no longer think you can adequately carry out the duties you are required to perform, is wrong. If you lack enthusiasm, are unable or dislike what you do, for your good and the benefit of those you serve, give it up.

Whether a door is closed to you or you close it yourself, that is usually God talking and telling you he has other plans for you elsewhere.

I listened to a woman, Katrina, tell about the time when she failed a critically important test at a chosen college. Consequently, she was unable to resume studies there. At the time, Katrina was heartbroken and she felt like a failure -- like she had blown it for good. She went to her most trusted adviser, her father, and surprisingly, he seemed anything but upset. Before Katrina had attended college, she had been an actress -- and actually loved it.

"I told you that you need to be an actress, you're good at it and you like it," he said. "Now get yourself all fixed up and go out there and make it in the world of theater. That's God's way of telling you to stop trying to be something you're not and pursue your real dreams. You found out that this college is not for you, so it's time to forget it and move on."

One ought to follow what his heart tells him rather than what society dictates.

When one entrance is continuously shut to you is when you should examine your thoughts and see where the exit door leads. Don't fret, or continue to be sad and depressed, but be excited and enthusiastic because when one door slams shut, another one truly opens.

Psalm 139:13 says: "You created my inmost being. You knit me together in my mother's womb."

Follow your inner promptings.

Ellen Shuck holds degrees in psychology, religious education and spiritual direction and provides spiritual direction to people at her office.