DEAR GRANDPA: FRIEND'S DYING OF CANCER FATHER HARD TO ACCEPT

Dear Grandpa:

I have a close friend whose father is dying from cancer. From what he tells me his dad has only a month or two to live. My friend says his mother is bringing him home so he can die in dignity in his owe home.

I know his father well, we've gone on many outings together.

To me it's kind of creepy to have someone come home to die. Shouldn't people die in the hospital and be taken directly to the funeral home from there?

My buddy has invited me to visit when his dad comes home. I'm trying to mink of excuses to keep from doing that.

Any ideas?

Tom, San Antonio.Dear Tom:

What your friend's mother and father have decided to do makes good sense. Hospitals can be very impersonal and lonely places for patients. Dying in a place other than a hospital or in one's home is a good option for many.

Not only is it less expensive than a hospital stay, but it is also more peaceful and better for the dying patient.

Tom, I encourage you to visit your friend's father when he arrives home. Both of you will enjoy the visit.

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