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OpinionApril 26, 2018

There was a man. His name was Melvin. I have no words that could adequately express my sadness in the loss of my dear friend, mentor and Christian brother Melvin Gateley. And in the same moment, I experience great joy as I recall the memories of Melvin and the positive influence he had on my life...

There was a man. His name was Melvin.

I have no words that could adequately express my sadness in the loss of my dear friend, mentor and Christian brother Melvin Gateley. And in the same moment, I experience great joy as I recall the memories of Melvin and the positive influence he had on my life.

I recall the day Fran and I moved to Cape, in 2000, Melvin was there to tell me exactly where to get involved in our city and to do it now! And no one could say no to Melvin. His enthusiasm was contagious!

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Melvin's entire life was a life of service; service to our Lord, service to others, service to our city. Melvin was the biggest person I've ever known. He had total focus. He led by example. He lived his life for the good of others. He lived a life that was both visible and measurable. His name will not only be carved on a tombstone, but will forever be carved in my heart.

Cape has not simply lost a citizen, we have lost a citizen's positive influence in every aspect of our lives.

The words that I cannot express are said perfectly in a song by Kirk Talley "Serenaded by Angels": Serenaded by angels, up to the throne. Serenaded by angels, finally at home. Surrounded by praises, to the King. Welcome to Paradise, the angels did sing.

DOUG AUSTIN, Cape Girardeau

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