Refugees wish more focus on Syria, less on closing U.S. doors

KANSAS CITY, Mo. -- Ahmad Alabood, whose family was the first to be resettled in America as part of the "surge" refugee program, wishes President Donald Trump would help topple Syria's regime rather than press to close U.S. borders to those fleeing a torn homeland.

"The Syrian people deserve better than this," Alabood, 48, who with his wife and five children arrived last spring in Kansas City, said through a translator Friday.

The sentiment was shared 550 miles away by Motaz Alafandi, a 49-year-old Syrian living in Dallas while seeking asylum with his wife and three youngest children, ages 14, 11 and 5.

"I wish that Mr. President (Trump) can help in stopping the war in Syria," said Alafandi, who said he loves the U.S. and the American people but hopes to return one day to his homeland.

"If my country will become good again, I won't stay here," he said.

Syrian refugee Ahmad Alabood answers a question during an interview in Kansas City, Mo., Friday, Jan. 27, 2017. Alabood, whose family was the first to be resettled in the U.S. as part of the U.S. "surge" refugee program, says President Donald Trump should help topple Syria'Äôs regime rather than press to close off U.S. borders to more refugees. Alabood'Äôs assessment Friday through a translator came hours before Trump signed an executive action imposing "new vetting measures" that he says are aimed at keeping "radical Islamic terrorists" out of the U.S. (AP Photo/Orlin Wagner)

Such laments about Syria -- reeling from a civil war that has spawned hundreds of thousands of refugees -- come as Trump on Friday signed an executive order imposing "new vetting measures" he said are aimed at keeping "radical Islamic terrorists" out of the United States, saying "we don't want them here."

Among the order's directives are the U.S. stop issuing visas to Syrian nationals and halt the processing of Syrian refugees until security changes are made and suspend all immigration from countries with terrorism concerns for 90 days.

The city of Rutland, Vermont, had planned to welcome 100 refugees from Syria and Iraq, but with Trump's Friday order, the community expects to see only the two Syrian families that arrived this month.

Ahmed Khatib, 37, said he, his wife Mahasen Boshnaq, and their three young children arrived there Jan. 19.

On Friday, he said they feel lucky. Day by day, they are settling in, and Khatib has started talking with people about getting work. After studying agricultural technology in college, he hopes to finish his degree in the U.S.

Khatib said he looks forward to being self-sufficient, working, having a home for his family and school and clothing for his children.

He doesn't think Trump's opinion reflects Americans, who he said want to allow refugees in the country.

"They are very nice, and they are very helpful and welcoming," Khatib said. "I care about what the America people want and I feel that they want refugees."

Alabood said restricting refugees into the U.S. could deepen American suspicion and fan anti-Muslim hostility. Critics of the proposed moves have labeled them reckless and un-American.

"There are certain (American) people that would take it to an extreme" and lash out, said Alabood, a former construction worker in his homeland. "There are lots of people in desperate need of help, and this is a great country to help them."

Abdul Manan, 31, an Afghan interpreter who worked for the Army and special forces for eight years, arrived in San Diego two months ago. It took him three years to get out on a special immigrant visa, but his relatives remain in his village and have been threatened.

Manan suggested Trump talk to the military and veterans who will attest to the risk interpreters took to help troops.

"They have sacrificed their lives and their family's lives, and now they are left behind. I think of the history of America. Is that how they do? If someone helps them and they're left behind, they're at the mercy of the terrorists -- ISIS."

Since settling in Missouri nine months ago, Alabood has chased the American dream, albeit in baby steps. He's earning $10.25 an hour making plastic car parts, trying to learn English and has a four-bedroom rental home to go along with his donated 2000 minivan. His $725 monthly rent tab leaves him unable to afford health insurance.

Yet he gushes of the graciousness of Kansas City, saying he's not been subjected to anti-Muslim sentiment in the Midwest. His brother has joined him, arriving in Kansas City five months ago with his three kids, ages 8, 6 and 4.

In Dallas, Alafandi enjoys a temporary protected status, which has allowed him to get a work permit and driver's license. Alafandi, who came with his family to the U.S. in 2014 and awaits word on his asylum application, has a tow truck business.

"Sometimes we feel that everybody is against us," fostering a feeling of being unwelcomed, he said. "Our people are killed in Syria, and when they try to find a way to survive, people are kicking them out and dealing with them badly."

"I wish that we will be treated as a human beings that are seeking shelter and are seeking to be secure with our families," he added. "We are just asking to be safe and find jobs and feed our kids."