It isn't wrong to want

Have you ever wanted a different house, to take a trip, attempt an alternative occupation or felt some other unrelenting desire? Did someone tell you that you should be satisfied with what you had, and then quoted the Scripture, "Let your life be free from love of money but be content with what you have, for he has said, 'I will never forsake you or abandon you'"? (Hebrews 13:5)

I've often heard that advice, but I tended to overlook the main point, which speaks of "loving" money and things rather than trusting God. I pondered the place desire plays in our lives.

Wants affect us in living our lives, for without the prompting of desire we wouldn't get out of bed each morning. Our desires and wants are a part of who we are. They help make us aware of the niche we're to fill in life because people usually pursue what they enjoy. One of my favorite Scriptures is, "Delight yourself in the Lord and he shall give you the desires of your heart." (Psalm 37:4)

Wishes aren't sinful. God encourages our wants so he can grant those desires of our heart.

Genuine contentment comes from living out the purpose for which God created us, and only we know where he is leading us. Often people believe it's virtuous to stay in an unsatisfying job or to refrain from purchasing a coveted object. It's seen as a way of sacrificing for God. I think it can be a show of martyrdom or false piety to hold such a view, because we are made for happiness. It isn't the desire that's dangerous, but excessive love of our possessions and position. It's placing our wants above all else that is risky.

Sometimes we choose to stay where we are, keep what we have and continue in our rut for fear of the unknown. It isn't wrong to want a change, desire something new and different or pursue a chosen work. Taking chances and leaping out to hold the hand of God while pursuing one's dreams can sometimes be the best way to find contentment.

I hope I never cease wanting. How can I ever reach goals or attempt challenges without first desiring it? Rather than centering on a God of lack and deprivation, I intend to continue delighting in the Lord and focusing on a God of possibility and plenty who truly wants to give me the desires of my heart. I will persist in daring to want. What will you do?

Ellen Shuck is director of religious education at St. Mary's Cathedral in Cape Girardeau.