fertility graphic Day 1

Thanksgiving

Come late or leave early.

Have a signal that says to your spouse: "Come save me!"

Don't corner yourself in a room. Always plan a way to excuse yourself.

For wives -- hang out with the guys. They are less likely to be talking about babies.

Prepare standard answers to frequently asked questions that upset you.

Christmas

Shop online for gifts.

At the mall, use the outside entrance of stores to avoid the center of the mall where Santa will be located.

Talk candidly with relatives if you think they may be planning a baby announcement at a family gathering. That way you can avoid the moment if it's upsetting.

Treat yourself. It is a great time to buy that special item you've had your eye on, a trip to the spa, or even a mini-vacation.