- Two men seriously hurt in crash near Fruitland (9/21/16)3
- Driver charged with manslaughter in crash that killed 2 (9/27/16)
- Perryville man arrested for alleged patronizing prostitution, harassment (9/23/16)6
- Video and evidence largely confirm trooper's claims in April traffic stop shooting (9/23/16)9
- Cape man may lose eye after shovel beating, police say (9/25/16)2
- Funeral procession of former Cape Girardeau police chief Henry H. Gerecke (9/22/16)17
- Cape man accused of attacking pregnant girlfriend (9/22/16)
- Planning, design puts renovations of H-H building into hotel on hold (9/26/16)5
- Show Me Center upgrades may allow facility to draw more elaborate shows (9/21/16)17
- Woman accused of pushing Wal-Mart employee after theft (9/27/16)
Can we trust our schools?
As we send our most valuable treasures back to school, I feel compelled to help other parents learn from my mistake. I have always supported the Cape Girardeau School District and naively entrusted the staff and administrators at one of our "better" elementary schools to treat my child with dignity and respect. I believed by participating in meetings and classroom activities I was informed. Sadly, I learned at my son's expense that he experienced daily humiliation for months on end due to the uncaring tenured teacher ruling the cafeteria and her inexcusable absence of compassion, communication or accountability.
Before letters pour in from caring, talented teachers, let me clearly state that I hope our experience was an exception and not the rule. I know most teachers do care. (Although I have learned of another child pulled from this school due to a similar circumstance.) It is tragic that our tenure system allows those who exhibit little compassion and even less common sense to remain in positions of power over our children as we parents continue to pay their salaries.
I thought I was an involved parent, but I now realize I was too trusting. Whether your child is in a public or private school (thank heaven for Deer Creek!), I encourage every parent to visit not only the classroom but also the playground, the library, the gymnasium and, most definitely, the cafeteria to check on your children and, sadly, on those entrusted to care for them.
ELIZABETH SHELTON, Cape Girardeau