"If they say your appointment is at 4, it's not at 4:01 or 4:30. It's at 4," said Hekmat, a special education consultant at the Southeast Regional Professional Development Center.
She also talked about common interview questions, what to take to an interview and who to use as references.
"Most people ask you for three references, people who can recommend you for a job," she said, naming teachers, Boy Scout and Girl Scout leaders.
The presentation was part of a transition fair Thursday at the Cape Girardeau Career and Technology Center hosted by the development center and Local Administrators of Special Education. The event, aimed at disabled high school students, presented resources to prepare them for life after high school.
The fair is usually in the spring, but Emmendorfer said organizers moved it to the fall so students could have the school year to digest the information.
"They go back and still have half of a school year to work on transitions," she said.
Community and service agencies also set up booths to distribute information about their services. Cape Girardeau County Transit Authority, the Southeast Missouri State University Autism Center for Diagnosis and Treatment and Shawnee Community College were among the 25 attending organizations.
Emmendorfer said students leaving high school need to know where to get assistance, whether for job training, disability services in college or living assistance.
Building confidence is a major part of the transition, said Brooke Watson, a marketing representative for New Vision Counseling in Cape Girardeau.
"A lot of them are a little nervous because they've always been helped and now they're on their own," she said.
She said students work with counselors to become more self-sufficient.
Finding adaptable employers is also a challenge, said Julie Hopkins, a case manager for SEMO Alliance for Disability Independence.
"They don't always find employers that are willing to work with them," she said.
She said the organization is developing an employment mentoring program to help students build resumes, develop interview skills and find employment.
Bonnie Propst attended the fair with her son Cameron Propst, a senior at Meadow Heights High School. She said he has a central auditory processing disorder, a hearing disability that makes it difficult for him to focus. It was originally diagnosed as attention deficit disorder, and resulted in ear tubes and two reconstructive ear drum surgeries.
She said she is worried about how he will continue his education, but the fair gave her tips on college entrance exams and how he can earn supplemental income through a Social Security program.
"I think he's leaning more toward technical school," she said.